Timotiyos I 3:3-5

Orthodox Jewish Bible

³ Not a shikkor (drunkard) indulging in much wine, not violent but forbearing and eidel (gentle, courteous), not a ba’al machlokes (quarrelsome person), not a gelt-loving kamtzan (miser).

⁴ He must be a ba’al bayit who can manage his own household well, having his banim (children) in submission with all respect.

⁵ Now if anyone does not have da’as of how to manage his own bais, how will he be a menahel ruchani (spiritual administrator) who can give oversight to the Kehillah of Hashem?